Episode 013

Why do so many of us repeat the same patterns in relationships, career, and personal growth—feeling stuck, unfulfilled, or triggered?

In today’s episode, Ehsun Anwar shares his incredible journey of transformation, beginning with deep suffering and evolving into profound self-awareness. Through his own healing, Ehsun has guided thousands of individuals and couples to recognize and disrupt the subconscious patterns keeping them trapped in unhappiness.

We dive deep into the father wound, exploring how early experiences of criticism, neglect, or emotional absence leave lasting imprints on our identity, behavior, and relationships. Ehsun also challenges modern perspectives on narcissism, shedding light on how it’s both misunderstood and deeply rooted in survival mechanisms passed down through generations.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How the father wound manifests in men and women differently—and how it shapes our identity

  • Why narcissism is misunderstood—and the surprising connection to survival instincts

  • Practical tools to break free from trauma patterns, victim consciousness, and unhealthy dynamics

  • The role of body mapping, breathwork, and emotional release in healing deeply rooted pain

  • Why true inner peace starts with acknowledging and releasing emotional blocks

If you’ve ever felt stuck, unfulfilled, or overwhelmed by emotional patterns, this episode will inspire you to take your first steps toward healing and self-awareness.

  • (00:00:00) Introduction & The Problem with Modern Perspectives on Narcissism

    (00:10:15) Breaking Free from Emotional Patterns & Trauma Responses

    (00:18:30) How Narcissism Can Be Misunderstood: From Survival to Healing

    (00:26:12) The Role of Breathwork & Body Mapping in Emotional Healing

    (00:34:18) Victim Consciousness: Why It Feels Safe & How to Let It Go

    (00:43:07) The Importance of Boundaries in Healing Relationships

    (00:50:32) Cultivating Inner Peace & Releasing the Pain of the Past

    (00:58:54) Macro vs. Micro Perspectives on Narcissism & Planetary Healing

    (01:00:52) Final Thoughts & Where to Find Ehsun

    • healing the father wound

    • understanding narcissism and trauma

    • emotional triggers and how to break free

    • subconscious pattern healing

    • emotional self-awareness tools

    • body-based trauma release

    • breathwork for deep healing

    • breaking free from victim consciousness

    • healing through self-awareness

    • tools for inner peace and clarity

Want to hear more conversations like this one?

You can connect with Ehsun Anwar at his website & Instagram.

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